And it would be a shame to take everything you’ve learned and anything that’s helped you grow and not give it all away before you go.
My grandfather never spoke about his time during in the Second World War, which is fair. I’m certain he experienced some of the most horrendous things humanity has ever been capable of in a short period of time. As the saying goes, a real soldier never talks about war.
But this was a guy who packed it all in afterwards and immigrated to a new country in his forties, immediately getting into heavy work that was best reserved for young bodies. He built a life here, of which I am a serious benefactor. However, he said very little. Ever.
Yet, he gave everything away in those moments he did open his mouth.
“Do what you need to do and then move on with your day.”
“I don’t know why I watch this team.” (Toronto Maple Leafs)
“Here’s $10. Guy buy a burger.”
While it sounds like I’m being facetious, it’s these tidbits that have me wonder about his ability to live as though he didn’t uproot himself in the middle of his life. Although, his favourite moments were just sitting back and watching the family during gatherings, so I have to assume there were feelings of satisfaction at how it all turned out.
The world changes, but the human spirit does not and I know there is much wisdom that goes untapped. While I may not be able to get five more minutes with my grandfather, I still have a chance to give everything away from my time here before I go.
In any small way, I hope more do as a well.